The Dunning–Kruger Effect
The Dunning-Kruger effect is in operation when humans with minimal skill, limited knowledge, or inadequate competence grossly overestimate their ability.
Occam’s Razor
“When faced with two competing theories, the simpler explanation is usually correct.” In other words, the explanation that requires the fewest number of assumptions is typically correct.
The Barnum Effect
The Barnum Effect is in play when humans believe that personality descriptions apply specifically to them.
Confabulation
Confabulation is a memory error. It happens when there are gaps in a human's memory, and those gaps are filled with manufactured, misinterpreted, and distorted information.
The Magic of the Last 3 Words
I use this language hack in almost every one of my conversations. I call it The Last 3 Words — although the number of words can vary.
A Message to Garcia
I was introduced to this story while a senior in high school. It sat in a cardboard box for many years after. Then, in my 30s, I found it during a move and understood A Message to Garcia differently this time around.
How to Hack Your Mind’s Algorithm
What you focus on, you tend to get more of. But, unfortunately, most humans focus on what could go wrong, what they can't do, and how they're not good enough. Even I sometimes fall into this trap.
Connections and Links
When you learn how to direct the thoughts of others, the more effective you will be with your communication.
This Is a Little Fishy
The best humans strive to leave others better than before they met.
Let’s Get Physical
Your emotions affect your physiology, and your physiology affects your emotions.
Storytelling Is Your Job
If you want to be great at what you do, storytelling is the critical skill you must master.
Humans Will Never Forget How You Made Them Feel
Humans will never forget how you made them feel.
The Meaning of Your Communication Is the Response You Get
Kim from Miami emailed me. She says she's been told by friends that she's "a bit abrasive." Kim wants to know how to talk to others so they better understand her without getting upset.
Trance-form Your Communication
A mental health care professional from Columbus, Ohio contacted me. He wants to know why he should add hypnosis to his practice.
So, What's Next For Us?
I want to begin helping you more directly. Think “Dear Abby” or “Ask Ann Landers.”
Uptime Trance
You must learn to create uptime within yourself. This means that you must detach from your self-awareness.
Charisma and Charm
Let’s address the most common question I receive about charisma… “Aren’t you just born with charisma?”